Better sex Generally, we're not taught how to be fantastic lovers – we learn through experience. At GMFA we get the chance to talk to lots of gay men about their experiences and the things that can make for great sex. We've gathered some of their best advice here, as well as some tips that help keep the sex you have safe. We've also taken the time to really learn about how the arse works and how you can increase your pleasure and reduce your pain when you're getting fucked. We can guarantee that the section on your arse will teach you things that they never taught you in sex education at school. We know that not everybody is going to like the same thing, but whether you've just come out or you've been around the block a few times, we hope that there will be something here that you can use. The more confident and informed you are in sexual situations, the easier it is for you to stay in control of the sex you're having and to make sure that the sex you have is as safe as you want it to be.